Whenever you become a friend, setting aside some kind of interest, most of them are because they have the same interests and hobbies. I have no interest in the intertwined, there are many interesting things like the same place, for example, we do not smoke, do not gamble, like static, but also love to drink, even worse are all loved drunk.
To be honest, if not working in the same company, I promise we have long lost contact. Because he never took the initiative, even kindly about him, he always refused with a reason for no reason: do not go! Do not go is not to, nor any explanation of you, how do you understand how to love understanding. Once forbear him, twice forbear him, times so, you still bear it? Not asking him anything! So, friends around him one by one difficult to retreat. I believe this cannot blame others, he does make a lot of people unbearable, but I may be able to him, L also may be able to him, not because he did not endure seeing his faults, but he has found humanity in the more value the On the one hand, this aspect is far more prominent than his shortcomings.
You can rn painful situations around through laughter. If you can find humor in anything, even poverty, you can survive it.
To truly laugh, you must be able to take your pain and play with it.
He does not love to talk, see who does not say hello, does not say a word a day, he often mouth ulcers, and I remember a colleague once laughed at him: you are talking too little! The mouth of the air does not flow. He has a habit of drinking, as long as others cling to him, and he does it immediately, with his head down and never mind the wine in his cup. Most of them live alone. After returning home from work, he turns on the TV first and then turns the television tone up. Then he starts to focus on the Internet and asks him who to turn on the television. He said he wants to add some popularity! In fact, not many people in this world are really willing to be alone.
Starts his business, he took all his accumulation without hesitation, he is not betting him to win, is to use action to tell you to dare to do it, I support you. L financing needs, he also mortgaged his own property. It was not easy for him to have a good house in Guangzhou, but this was his years of hard work, but he did not seem to think of it. In fact, he and L do not often meet, meet too much to say, but because L is his good friend, a good brother. Good brother something, he hesitates. Sometimes I urgently opened his mouth to him, than to ask him to eat more readily, as long as he has, never hesitated. In fact, he is not wealthier than me, but he does not have any investment ideas, with revenue will only be saved. In this respect, it is cheaper for me and L, and as a result, we have to “tolerate “him everywhere.
My pain may be the reason for somebody’s laugh.
But my laugh must never be the reason for somebody’s pain.
Of pain you could wish only one thing: that it should stop. Nothing in the world was as bad as physical pain. In the face of pain, there are no heroes.
One reason we tolerated him was that he was not in a good position and could even be terrible. He divorced, until now not successful, his father paralyzed, his brother advanced oral cancer, made long time chemotherapy, is now basically give up. His mood is not good, some emotions, some autistic, I and L can understand. If these happen to other people, maybe they will all day complain, but he did not mention anything. All the sufferings are swallowed by one person. After the first year off to work on the first day I went to L with him to play clubs, three of us eat dinner at night, we used to drink a few cups for each meal, this time he drank more, or because of our The topic touches the line of defense of his feelings , let him cry.
He told us that now the only pillar of his family – his mother, is also oral cancer! Doctors say the disease is hereditary, and his own “mouth ulcers” is no less than his mother and brother. His family also let him go to check, he insisted not go, that do not want to know the result! Speaking of this, the wine table calm down, we have not spoken for a long time, I and L are crying. He wanted to go home to accompany them around, try to do his son to do his brother’s responsibility, but the economy must be supported by him, he had continued to work, eat less use, with their wages to their loved one’s life for more time.
From the moment I picked your book up until I laid it down, I convulsed with laughter. Someday I intend on reading it.
I never forget a face, but in your case I’ll be glad to make an exception.
In fact, he and his mother’s situation, he knew long ago, even in the face of his best friend, he did not want too much mention, he did not want to put in front of others in a painful or pathetic way, Do not want others to share his pain and sadness . Some people who do not understand will say that he is autistic and indifferent! If the body carrying so many adversities, how many people can be as strong as he! On the way back, my tears flowed out! As his good friend, good brother, we can do for him? Or cannot do anything. Instead, he used a brutal fact to formulate a measure of happiness for us. Let us instantly understand that even if we have such an unpleasant feeling, we can have more pain than we do! We are not the contentment and gratitude of life do?