A consultant came to me recently. From the very beginning, she said something like this: I am 32 years old. She is the mother of a four-year-old girl and graduated from a major university in 1999 with a master’s degree. Now I work with her husband at a large group company in Shanghai. He is doing technical management and I am doing product development. If all of us maintain the status quo, we should live a moderate standard of living according to the current situation in the industry.
When the Price is not Expensive
Buy a house when the price is not expensive, the mortgage repayment pressure is not great, and now the house is already a high price, there are private cars and no loans, and immediately my own patent came out, it is estimated the next step is to promote No problem. So many people are still envious of me, but why am I still confused? Yes ah, there is room for a car, there are promotions, why should be confused?
“You can do anything as long as you have the passion, the drive, the focus, and the support.”
“If you don’t love what you do, you won’t do it with much conviction or passion.”
The Truth Behind her Said
The truth behind her said: Really, the choice of your course is precisely because of my contradictions, perhaps more than thirty people do not have a fixed goal is indeed a sad, maybe, the current state of work To continue, is a wise choice, I really lost. But I really feel that their heart there is a presence of passion, although this passion does not seem Qiang Lie a few years ago, and I really do think it is afraid of the day is gone, just like you ask for advice professional! Passion, in the eyes of some, seems to be a less fashionable term that still affects our lives and reflects the value and happiness of our lives.
There is Such a Story
There is such a story: a pair of brothers returned home after traveling together, one of them carrying a large bag of luggage. Their home lives on eighty floors, and when they come back they find that the building is out of power. So they climbed the stairs together. On the 20th floor, my brother told his brother: the package is too heavy, we put it on the 20th floor, and we climbed up, and then come down tomorrow.
My Brother said: Okay
My brother said: Okay. So they put their bag on the 20th floor, continue to climb. To the forty floors, my brother began to complain, so just like her brother quarreled. They quarried while quarreling climbed to the sixtieth floor, my brother said to his brother: only twenty floors, we do not quarrel, climb it silently it! So they went their own way and finally came to the house. Brother put on a very handsome position, said: brother opened the door. Brother said to his brother: do not downtown; the key is not at your place. Originally, they left the key in the bag on the 20th floor.
“There is no passion to be found playing small—in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”
“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”
Dream is the Story of Happiness
Dream is the story of happiness is actually reflecting our lives. A lot of people are under the promise of their families and teachers before the age of 20, and they are under a lot of pressure. After the age of 20, they have left their pressure and started to run around and work hard. However, after working for 20 years, I found the job unsatisfactory ……So began to complain about the boss, complaining about the company, complaining about the community, complaining about the government. It took another twenty years in this complaint. So tell me, sixty-year-old nothing to complain of, and silently finish their own old age. By the time eve of eighty was about to die, she remembered something as if nothing had been done – his 20-year-old dream had not yet been fulfilled.
Want to do to Achieve their Dreams
So, I hope now you are full of ideas, full of enthusiasm to do what you want to do to achieve their dreams. Short life span of dozens. Especially after so many encounters, one should realize that dreams are where happiness lies. There was once an undergraduate graduating from medical profession asked me: I have studied medicine for five years, but I hate being a doctor, I like sales, what should I do? Do not give up learning five years of professional? Is this loss too much?
Which Lost More?
I said to her: If for five years of loss and lost his life like to work opportunities, which lost more? If the choices of the past five years are beyond our control, then the opportunity to re-choose now is coming. The power of decision is in your hands. How should you be responsible for your life? Do not lose the happiness of your life for five years!
“It is the soul’s duty to be loyal to its own desires. It must abandon itself to its master passion.”
“It is obvious that we can no more explain a passion to a person who has never experienced it than we can explain light to the blind.”
Dream is the Realization of Value
Dream is the realization of value. Bernice Siegel once said something like this: I do not think you’ll do the same thing for the next 12 months, whether you win a jackpot or you know you’re about to say goodbye to the world Be really live their own life, at this moment, you only make sense. There is a drug shop owner, his father was arrested as a child when he was killed and cannot afford medicine, and he vowed to open a charity pharmacy shop. When the boss, he does not change his mind, childless, rich and poor.
Some Pharmacists See this Shake
He also taught himself, for those who cannot afford to see a doctor prescribe. Some pharmacists see this shake their heads: a prodigal son, do not lose money strange! However, his business is booming, overshadowed by all those who will be more cost-effective than him, more capable and capable people. So many things in the world, when you deliberately chase, it flies and flies like a butterfly; when you put aside the surface of all kinds of miscellaneous thoughts, for the community, for others, dedicated to one thing, the unexpected gain Has been quietly greeting you.
Dream is the Source of Power
Dream is the source of power. If you really do something interesting, or by planning know they are currently being hard to do what they are really interested in the future, access to greater success and happiness and realize their deepest aspirations and to prepare the case everyone will be full of passion for work. As the following story shows :
Three workers are building a wall, someone came over and asked: What are you doing? The first person said snappily: did not see it? Brick wall. The second person looked up and smiled and said: We are building a tall building. Third person doing humming a song, his smile was bright happy: we are building a new city. Ten years later, the first one built a wall on another site; the second one sat in his office drawing drawings and became an engineer; and the third was the boss of the first two.
Hard-working and Happy
Of course, the result of the boss is not important, nor is everyone supposed to be the boss, but at least those who have a clear purpose are hard-working and happy . Because he was building a wall, his vision and vision in his heart was a new city – that’s where his real motivation comes from. What is your dream and where is your goal? It is not clear yet? It does not matter, as soon as you start planning; it’s not too late…