Q:1 I sometimes ask myself: Where will I be in five years after graduation?
After graduation, some people work, some people continue to go to school…… I hope this article can give enlightenment, so I hope it can help you in confusion, if you read after another kind of “meet each other” the feeling particularly excited, I hope you can make good treasure of this article, think about it many years later, look at this article, I have a different feeling……
“There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.”
“Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.”
1. The Development is not Beneficial
Just as “working emperor” Jun Tang said: I think there are two kinds of people do not want to compete with others for their interests and return on value. The first person is just entering the business people, the first 5 years, do not say you can give me a little more wages, the most important thing is what can be learned in the enterprise; the development is not beneficial…… “People always get less benefit from peace and receive more lessons from suffering. They learn from peace and learn from suffering.
1.1 He most Important Thing is to First Practice Internal Strength
A person experienced suffering in his youth, if the correct view, out of darkness, that is, a man admirable. The most important thing is to first practice internal strength, after graduating these five years is the best time to practice internal strength, practicing internal strength; it is possible to climb higher in the future.
2. Where is the way out? Way out!
In fact, no money, no experience, no experience, no social relations, these are not terrible. No money, you can earn through hard work; no experience, you can practice, to sum up; no experience, you can step by step to accumulate; no social relations can be a little to weave. However, there is no dream, no idea is the most terrible, and it makes people feel fear, want to escape!
2.1 No Matter How High-spirited
People must have a right direction. No matter how high-spirited, no matter how resourceful, no matter how much effort it takes, without a definite direction, it will be overwhelmed. Gradually losing morale and forgetting the original dream will lead to a detour or no return, wasting his own intelligence, mistaken his youth.
2.2 Confusion Over the Past Five Years
There is a famous quote in Homer’s Odyssey: “There is nothing more unbearable than wandering aimlessly.” Confusion over the past five years after graduation can cause panic 10 years later and 20 years of struggle, even mediocre life. If you cannot get out of confusion five years as soon as you graduate, out of the fog, we are really faceless 10 years later, 20 years later. During these five years of graduation, we have a lot of uncertainty and a lot of possibilities.
3. In these five years of graduation, we have a lot of pending and many decisions.
Confused and confused who will experience, fear and escape Whoever had, but not confused and puzzled as an excuse to be self- giving, willing to mediocrity, not to be self-complacent, pay homage to the bitter wine. Life needs to take care of them, fate needs to grasp for you. In these five years of graduation, the sooner we find the direction, the sooner we get out of confusion, the easier it will be for us to make achievements and create great achievements on our life path.
3.1 In Life, in the Face of Predicament
Headless flies cannot find the direction, will run into a wall; a person cannot find a way out, will be confused, fear. In life, in the face of predicament, we often have the feeling of desperation. Do not be discouraged, persevere, and believe that there is no way out in the young life, the plight of the front, hoping at the corner. As long as we have the right train of thought, we can certainly avoid detours and find a way out!
4. Successful people do not win the starting point but win the turning point.
Many newly graduated young people always expect to find their ideal job immediately. However, many good jobs cannot wait; you have to choose a job as experience. The first job in a career journey is undoubtedly the starting point for entering this university. May find an unsatisfactory work, then starting from here, to settle their own well, from this work to learn valuable nutrition, generous.
4.1 Thousands of Miles Trip
Thousands of miles trip, beginning with the next step, as long as the departure, there is hope to reach the finish line. The starting point can be the same but choose a different inflection point, the end will be very different!
4.2 If you do not Take the Initiative to the Position
Graduation these years, our life, feelings, occupations and so there are many uncertain factors, the future is full of all possible. This time, we must learn to choose, know how to give up, give you a clear positioning, to stabilize them. If you do not take the initiative to the position, it will be others and the community “stereotypes”!
4.3 Depends on What We Say to Ourselves
It can be said: a man’s graduation in recent years to cultivate habits will determine the height of his life. Whether we succeed or not, to some extent, depends on what we say to ourselves and that is positioning. What is your positioning for yourself, what you are? Positioning can determine life, positioning can change the fate. Ugly duckling into a white swan, as long as a pair of wings; Cinderella into a princess, as long as a pair of crystal shoes.
5. seven by hard work, a dream “will be red,” love fight will win.
Human life, one-third of the day doomed, seven by hard work, a dream “will be red,” love fight will win. As long as you do not bind yourself in the cage of the soul, you cannot bind you to fly high. The reality is far from what they think. Thus, when the sense of superiority gradually turns into a sense of loss or even frustration, anger, confusion and inferiority begin to increase when they are convinced that they are a piece of “gold” and suspect that they are a “sand. “In fact, we should carefully weigh ourselves, is it really gold? It is real money, must have unique skills in order to have extraordinary talent.
5.1 Each Pearl is Originally a Grain of Sand
A word: real gold is to rely on the strength to prove that only the first ability to cultivate their own well, are eligible to consider Bole. Each pearl is originally a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can become a pearl. If you want to be outstanding, you have to stand out from the crowd. Cannot stand the blow and setbacks, cannot afford to ignore and plain, it is difficult to achieve glory. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must turn themselves from a grain of sand into a pearl of value.
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”
“When one door closes, another opens, but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.”
6. There are days of rain and sunrise, peak, and trough of life.
Mo look clouds for the clouds, style should look at the amount of long. As long as the shadow of the haze will be able to shine bright sky. If you are somewhat unhappy at work, believe that you will not always be in the trough of your life, one day you can break through the heavy clouds. Tell myself: I did not fail, but for the time being did not succeed! Just light a hope lamp in the heart, it will be able to disperse the dark haze, usher in the light.
6.1 The Sky before a Heavy Rain, with its Gray, Deep, Clear space
Indeed, on qualifications, is a real job rookie, business involves not deep, poor contacts, often at work. The pressure is not always the same as a magnificent boulder, but like the sky before a heavy rain, with its gray, deep, clear space. It is filled with gray to fill each gap and can only wait for the clear sky after heavy rain.
6.2 I remember a philosopher who once said
“Get up earlier than chicken, sleep later than a dog, do more than a donkey, eat worse than the pig.” This is a lot of just graduated people like to laugh at their own lives. Although a little exaggerated, however, many people are indeed always covered in the gray mood – my heart is always cloudy and overcast. I remember a philosopher who once said: “Our pain is not the problem itself, but our view of these issues.”
6.3 Entrepreneurship is Also True
Viewing life from another angle is a breakthrough, a relief, transcendence, a high level of indifferent and quiet, to obtain the freedom of comfortable pleasure. A philosopher said: “Life is a series of choices, each person’s future, and destiny, completely in their own hands, as long as the efforts will eventually succeed.” Ye Hao Ye, Ye Hao career, entrepreneurship is also true, as long as hard work, will succeed. In recent years after graduation, it is the golden age of changing one’s own destiny. In the best decision of their own destiny, if not yet sure, then you have to wait for what time? My life I call the shots, destiny by myself.
7. Do not live in other people’s mouths
Do not live in other people’s mouths, do not live in the eyes of others, but rather hold their own destiny in their hands. Do not say you have no background, you are the biggest background. As American writer Jack Kerouac said, “I’m still young and I am hungry for the road.” We are always young people on our journey to life, and we should be full of desires every day. Everyone’s potential is unlimited, the key is to find their potential and a correct understanding of their own talents, and find a stage to fully realize their potential, but not only for the improper feel bad stage. To objectively and impartially look at their own ability, combined with their own actual situation and love calm choice, as far as possible to most need their own, most suitable for their own place.
7.1 Character is Very Poor Ability
In the field of human resources management, there is a popular saying that the theory of “riding a horse, catching a cow, catching a pig, playing a dog” is very good in character and strong inability. But the ability is common, the old ox, we have to hold him; character, an ability is common, is the “pig”, we want to get rid of him; character is very poor ability, it is “dog”, we to fight him. I think, just graduated a few years, as ambitious, like to be a reward, gallop battlefield Maxima right? Then, it settles down. Low on the level does not mean inferior, today’s low is for high tomorrow. The so-called value of life is that our existence is valuable to others. Can be used by people is a good thing, nobody cares is the real sadness!
8. basic guarantee for the survival of the workplace.
Being able to work hard and doing a good job is the basic guarantee for the survival of the workplace. The prerequisite for anyone to work is his ability to do the job. Competent staff is the most basic standard of qualified staff, hard work is an attitude. Many people in a position are competent and have the basic ability to do a good job. However, whether we can do a better job or not depends on whether we have a practical and hard-working attitude and a deep study attitude.
9. On the basis of capable work hard work hard.
Work, work more than others, you feel loss; money less than others, you feel disadvantage; often work overtime, you feel the loss … … In fact, no need to care about this, the loss is not a disaster, not a failure, a loss is A philosophy of life. Now eat a small loss, to pave the way for success, perhaps at some point in the future, your great blessing suddenly came. Being able to suffer is a realm of being a man and a wise man alive. At work, not doing more work or helping others to do something is a disadvantage. If the leaders let you work overtime and rush the task, do not think they ate a big loss, but should be fortunate, because the leadership called only you, but did not call other people, that he trusts you, appreciate you. A loss is a contribution, the more you contribute, the more rewards you get. Happy to work overtime is such a loss.
9.1 Learning to Eat Deficits in Due Course
Willing to give up, there are homes to have; learning to eat deficits in due course is definitely not mentally handicapped, but wisdom. To give others leave is to give their own spare time, convenience is to give their own convenience, treat others is to treat themselves. Stupid fools, because stupid people do not plan. With such people, physical and mental relaxation, without too much vigilance, can close to each other. Silly in many ways means perseverance and loyalty, but also means generous and honest, unknowingly stand on his side. Inadvertently obtained by stupid people, more than smart people try their best to get more.
9.2 Life is Like a Snowball
Graduated in recent years, only a few pieces of snow floating in the sky, so you satisfied? Success needs to adhere to an accumulation, instead of focusing on the collection of snow, it is better to save the effort to snowball. Buffett said: “Life is like a snowball, the most important thing is to find very wet snow and long slopes.” Let you settle down and learn to find “very wet snow” and try to find “long slopes.” Remember: scattered snow will soon melt, into nothing, only the snowball is more real, can be long. In the past few years of graduation, if you can do more than others to work hard, it means more than others to accumulate a share of capital, more than others, a chance of success.
9.3 The Right Place to use the right Way
What is professional? Professionalization is the standardization of work conditions, standardization, institutionalization, that is, at the right time, the right place to use the right way to say the right thing to do the right thing, so that knowledge, skills, ideas, thinking, Attitude, psychology, etc. in line with professional norms and standards.
9.4 There are a lot of Great People in every Industry
“There are a lot of great people in every industry, they are able to exist because they work harder, smarter, and mature than others, but most importantly, they are more professional than the average person. That’s why the reason why I can be your boss right now is that it is not enough for a person to be professionally specialized, and only a professional person can fly in front of others and cannot be surpassed! “Do not think that we now have a very stable life. For those who have graduated for five years, we must recognize clearly the five major challenges to be faced.
- First, to support their parents.
- Second, married and have children.
- Third, promotions pay.
- Fourth, work pressure.
- Five, quality of life.
9.5 Some People Struggle for Development
Some people are alive and excited, their eyes always stay behind, three days fishing net for two days, and there is no end. Some people struggle for development, their eyes are always on the front, a little bit of progress every day, perseverance. Graduation these years, cannot be without the pursuit and exploration, cannot be without ideals and goals. Life is like a boat, do not go back.
9.6 What the Clever People are most Proud of
The current state of life is no longer the boat forward, no longer able to catch up with the pace of the times. We must pay close attention to every second of the time to learn, to understand that learning is not a student’s patent. What the clever people are most proud of is: What did they do? The most longing for the wise men is: what else should they do?
9.7 Look at the Small Business Owners
Small clever tactics, great wisdom is a strategy; small clever see sesame, great wisdom to see is the watermelon. In this world, there are both big and small roles, big and big people’s living laws, small and small people’s smart people, and everyone who has his own way of life and who can barely win anyone. However, smart only small achievements and small horizons, great wisdom can have great achievements and great realm. Look at the small business owners, enterprises in the system, large enterprises to see the culture.
10. Different stages of One Person will be Different.
There are no good or bad points for small companies and large enterprises, but the impact on different stages of one person will be different. Small companies certainly want to grow into the big business, which is a goal young people had to set their own career goals. Graduated a few years, whether it is often staged fright or feel emboldened? Safe time is not alarmist! Now nap, you will dream; at the moment to learn, you will dream. In the highly competitive battlefield of life, doze is the loser!
10.1 Everyone Seems to be Lofty at a Young Age
Everyone seems to be lofty at a young age, what is not afraid, but as time goes by, every day thinking about the house, work, breadwinner these things, no longer the kind of young dared to ” Under the ocean to catch turtle “courage. Is it because we have changed our life or have we changed our life? Our thinking is getting more and more complicated. With more and more reluctant and more and more worries, we are always wandering and always hesitating.
10.2 However, after Two or Three Years
After one or two years of graduation, the heavy burden of life can be overwhelmed by frustration and obstacles that block the passage of all directions. After we have exerted ourselves to exert our own potential, we can find no way out. However, after two or three years, the burden on the body began to ease and the work started smoothly. We relaxed and gradually forgot the potential danger. Until one day the crisis suddenly comes down and we are defeated at a loss…… Graduation these years, still in danger, we must have a sense of danger in peacetime, work hard, so as to have a real safe life!
11. The real danger to daunting people is that they’re not adventurous!
Born in trouble, died in peace. If you want to cross your own current achievements, you cannot draw self-limited, but have the courage to accept the challenge. The real danger to daunting people is that they’re not adventurous! Under the weight of society, young people have become more and more adaptive, but they are unconsciously accustomed to being pushed away by the environment.
11.1 Continuous Challenges and Breakthroughs
They did not dare to take risks, they were afraid to give themselves life-long regrets and comforted themselves: “I am worthy of my own family because I have done my best.” In fact, people can only gradually grow through continuous challenges and breakthroughs. Long-term stick to the existing sense of security, it will be like a frog in warm water, eventually losing the instinct to jump.
11.2 When you are Young, You Learn to Work Diligently
After years of social life, we must understand that there are rich and poor people in this world. There are also bright and beautiful people. There are ugly and beautiful things. What we see depends on whether we are positive or negative. When you are young, you learn to work diligently and treat life with a light mind. Then, as long as you open your palm, you will find that there is a brilliant life inside.
11.3 The Hatred is Written in the Sand
The Thanksgiving carved in stone, deeply grateful to others to help you, never forget that this is a realm of life should be; the hatred is written in the sand, pale forget others hurt you, learn tolerance, so that all resentment with the tide of waters gone, this is also a realm of life. Learn to pour out the water to put more water. From the day of graduation, learn to take every day as a new starting point, every work from scratch. If we understand that “zeroing” as a normal life, as an excellent continuation, as a matter of time, then after just a few years, we can complete the correct planning of their career and fully transcended.
“Don’t go around saying the world owes you a living. The world owes you nothing. It was here first.”
“If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.”
12. Put down the “figure” in order to improve their social status
To get better, faster and more profitable growth on the short path to professional start-up, you must face the world with zero thinking. Do not flaunt yourself in the university to high school, do not think they are particularly good, but to put down their own posture, to lower their own frame, let themselves settle down, with a learning attitude to adapt to the environment, to accept the challenge. Put down the “figure” in order to improve their social status, the temporary low will eventually lead to the future high.
12.1 We Want to be Successful in the Workplace
Young people from campus or from an environment into a new environment, we must have the courage to familiar with the original environment, habits, like things down, and then from scratch. We want to be successful in the workplace, we must first develop adaptability. Converting from the natural person to unit person is the basic condition to integrate into the job market.
12.2 A Low Starting Point is not Terrible
A low starting point is not terrible; afraid of the state is low. The more you think about yourself, the less perspective you have. On the contrary, the more you pay, the more you develop. Many people who have made some achievements today start from scratch in the early stages of their careers. They precipitate and reprecipitate themselves, emptied them, emptied them, returned to zero and returned to zero. It is precisely because of this that their lives are all the way to singing and flying all the way.
12.3 Correct their Behavior, Recognize Themselves
In the past few years after graduation, if we want to make the past zero, we will not become the only snail carrying a heavy shell in the workplace, so that we can fly light like the birds in the sky. Please taste good Jack Welch said something: “correct their behavior, recognize themselves, from scratch, you will embark on the career path.”
12.4 In the Past Few Years of Graduation
To vindicate the new mind can calm down, there is House to have, Cup empty to water full, down to go beyond. Zero thinking five performances: the heart without me, no money in the eyes, read him, no one in North Korea, learning endless. Young people will inevitably take a little arrogance, think they are all-powerful, invincible, it is not true, the new entrants into the workplace or a “baby”, is in the climb from the growth stage. In the past few years of graduation, we must gradually cultivate their own apprenticeship thinking, sponge thinking, empty cup thinking, people with such thoughts are always open heart, ready to accept the revelation and everything can inspire something, all the time Feel the summon of a successful goddess. Author unknown